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Protective Behaviours is a practical down to earth approach to personal safety. It is a process that encourages self-empowerment and brings with it the skills to raise self-esteem and to help avoid being victimised. This is achieved by helping individuals to recognise and trust their intuitive feelings (Early Warning Signs) and to develop strategies for self-protection.
The Protective Behaviours process encourages an adventurous approach to life that satisfies the need for fun and excitement without violence and fear.

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The Right Words

The Right Words

 

The poem below was written by Adele Rees in 2006 and is about her son Freddie who has a diagnosis of Down Syndrome. When I rediscoverd this poem I was in the middle of responding to a new PB Person and we were discussing how some people appear to want to squeeze 'unique young children' into little boxes by describing them for example as the 'EAL girl' rather than the girl for whom English is an additional language.

The poem, I believe, captures exactly what the Language of Safety is about in that it asks for respectful communication that is empowering and enhances relationships. For futher comments and discussion about this poem please visit this Forum post.

Sally Ann Hart

The Right Words

I’d like you to choose carefully, the words you might say
When you see my baby in the general day-to-day.

He is a darling baby boy who happens to have Down’s syndrome
The result of a small chemical accident and an extra chromosome.

But don’t call him ‘Downs Baby’, ‘A Downs’ or ‘Downs Boy’,
It makes him sound like a different breed, an animal or stuffed toy!

And please don’t make judgements like a book by its cover,
Like all other children, he’s very different from any other,
Don’t offer some generalised statement that’s outdated and might go…
‘He’ll be so loving and cuddly’.
How on earth do you know?!

It might not be easy to say words that don’t offend,
So just be honest and considerate so together we can mend
Society’s choice of words – because we need to emphasise that
Your words do make a difference to the way we feel inside.

So let’s get it right.
He is a baby WITH Downs.
Not a ‘Downs baby’.
Remember, other way round!!

He’s a human, like you, with just a little bit more
And if we were all the same, wouldn’t life be a bore?

Do please share this poem with others that you know
So down the road to ‘thoughtful language’, we all can humbly go.

And if you‘re a professional or involved in any way,
You’re the forefront of our campaign.
Get it right.

WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!

 

Adele Rees 2006

 

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